Is Your Child At Risk?
Many parents want to know the early warning signs of a preteen or young teens becoming engaged in a cybersexual relationship or their being groomed by an Internet sexual predator. While there are no hard and fast rules, these have proven to be helpful. Provide it to other parents, too. The more they know, the safer their kids will be.
* Does your child spend an inordinate amount of time online every
day? More than 1-1/2 hours a day of "fun" (not homework)
time online is the dividing line between children who tend to engage
in high risk online activities, such as meeting strangers offline,
engaging in cybersex, sharing personal information online, and sending
photos of themselves to strangers.
* Do they have lots of offline friends, or are they loners? Generally
children who have been lured by sexual predators online are loners
and don't have a large circle of offline friends.
* Are they between the ages of 11 and 15 years of age? The exact
age these risks begin is determined by when they are permitted to
go places without accounting precisely for their time. This may include
going to the mall, the park, or an amusement park unattended. Usually
by the time they are 16 years old, they aren't as susceptible to
being lured.
* Are they sheltered, or particularly risky in their behavior? The
typical victim tends to fall into the extremes of this range of behavior.
Either they are very sheltered and easy to con, when the predator
will promise marriage and love ever after, generally in the guise
of a cute teenage boy or girl. Or they will use the Internet to act
out their risky behavior, which was the recent case with a Connecticut
teenager.
* Do they have a relatively balanced life, with lots of activities
offline, including sports, music, reading, etc.? Although not the
case with the Connecticut girl, who was apparently active at her
school and in sports, most children who keep the Internet in perspective
and have other activities are less likely to be lured by an Internet
predator.
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